Loved this whole damn conversation! Brilliant. As you said, I think cishet malecentric porn where fingering isn’t a focus may have shoved this trend.
The men I’ve experienced really have no frigging clue even how to finger a person these days. It’s all violent speed fingering designed to make you squirt, seeing the squirt as asking how good the orgasm was (uh, buddy, no) or a cursory prod before penetration. And believe me I’m a great communicator. Or I try.
Yeah, I think the squirting "trend" is a really interesting subject all by itself. And it did slightly blow my mind the amount of "fingering" porn videos that were actually squirting videos, like that's its key purpose now?
Apparently yes! That is the purpose. It also furthers the mindset of squirt = orgasm. Which as we know isn’t always the case. All for the male gaze I suspect?
Loved this whole damn conversation! Brilliant. As you said, I think cishet malecentric porn where fingering isn’t a focus may have shoved this trend.
The men I’ve experienced really have no frigging clue even how to finger a person these days. It’s all violent speed fingering designed to make you squirt, seeing the squirt as asking how good the orgasm was (uh, buddy, no) or a cursory prod before penetration. And believe me I’m a great communicator. Or I try.
There was this one French man however…
Yeah, I think the squirting "trend" is a really interesting subject all by itself. And it did slightly blow my mind the amount of "fingering" porn videos that were actually squirting videos, like that's its key purpose now?
Apparently yes! That is the purpose. It also furthers the mindset of squirt = orgasm. Which as we know isn’t always the case. All for the male gaze I suspect?